“My first memory is of being molested; that’s how far back my history of sexual abuse goes…”…It went on for quite a few years, so needless to say, I’ve got a ton of mental disorders and a buttload of PTSD.
I ended up waiting for marriage because physical contact itself is really triggering for me, so intimacy is a literal nightmare.
The waiting happened because I knew no matter how much therapy I went to, having sex would trigger a ton of somatic memories and send me into flashbacks, and no way was I going to be that vulnerable in front of someone unless they wanted to be with me forever.
We just celebrated our one-year anniversary and luckily sex isn’t as triggering to me anymore, but it was definitely the right call for me to wait until marriage.”
—corgigrrrrrl

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